Instructions:
Run the installer (install unsupported software from the crossover installer, specify path.)
get some of the oracle instantclient for win32 zip files (at least basic)
unpack them in ~/.cxoffice/win2000/drive_c/Program Files
cd instantclient_10_2
mkdir network/admin
cd network/admin
ln -s $ORACLE_HOME/network/admin/tnsnames.ora .
OR
ln -s $TNS_ADMIN/tnsnames.ora .
wherever your tnsnames.ora lives...
Launch pl/sql developer.
Go to preferences.
set oracle home to C:\Program Files\instantclient_10_2
set oci.dll to C:\Program Files\instantclient_10_2\oci.dll
Close it, and launch it again.
You should be able to connect to a database now.