Ok finally know what happend!
its a router problem!
need to establish a specific setting on the router to allow the game
to work!
thats why it worked in the office and not at home...
That's strange. It's hard to believe that your home router would have more restrictive settings than those at the office -- or how they got that way.
Usually "work routers" specifically block ports to prevent gaming on company time.
Maybe your original diagnosis was more correct than you realized
my only reasonable explanation says its the wife or router settings.
Just making a quick check of the LOTRO/Turbine technical support and forums, the only references I'm finding are to Window's Firewall and to Acheron's call and DDO. Nothing about LOTRO requiring any ports (TCP or UDP) to be opened. Both AC and DDO are significantly older technologies than LOTRO.
setup exceptions for the following ports for DDO: 9000 through 9010,
and 2900 through 2910 as TCP/UDP port connections.
If that doesn't fix your problem... (You might also find more on the LOTRO Forums than I did as I only spent a couple of minutes hunting.)
Rather than your Wife, I would have no trouble blaming your ISP. :) One assumes that you have a different one at home than at work.
The relevant communications questions will be:
1- What is your connection type and ISP? DSL/Cable Verizon/Comcast etc.
2- What is your home "router" -- is it a Modem/Router combination (typical for Cable modems and Verizon DSL?
Example:
I have a DSL Line from Cavalier Telephone (Cavtel).
This connects to a DSL Modem, which in turn connects to an Apple Airport Extreme base station (the router).
My iMac connects via WiFi not direct ethernet.
In my case, I do not have any specific ports opened (Mapped) for either DDO or LOTRO use.
And one final note. I find it hard to believe that you can play the game at home, and get the funny "black screen" issue -- or are you saying that you never get past that black screen?
According to your video, you are at the point where the game client is connecting to the Turbine servers to download your current "state" information. You have successfully communicated with the Login Server, terminated PyLotRO and are running the Turbine Client at that point. The Turbine client actually has a brief dialog at the bottom of the screen about connecting..... then it pop-up the Character selection screen.